Top 6 Secrets of Happy Couples

Written by Dr. Veena Madhankumar and medically reviewed by iCliniq medical review team


Couples who make their relationship work in the longterm do not do this easily. It takes a lot of effort from both the partners to stay this way. There is no magic wish that can make this happen.

Here are a few habits happy couples follow that make things work in the longterm.



1.Develop a Realistic View


Understand that the burst of romance and infatuation that you had initially when you met each other, will not last forever. This is going to be replaced by mature feelings and a deeper understanding you have on each other. A realistic long-term relationship will definitely have its hard times. Do not lose hope over a single fight or misunderstanding.

2. Spend Time Together



Spending quality time with each other is an imperative step. Nothing can substitute this. Make sure you do something productive that interests both of you rather than being aloof. Time spent alone will erase rough spots and make way for new and happier memories.

3.Honesty is Essential


After a certain point in time, absolute honesty is essential. This does not mean that you should inform your partner about everything that goes on in your life. It is better to let them know your past and present experiences, which will play a vital role as to how it will affect your relationship. Some times your partner might not be happy with all you have to tell, but it is better when he finds it out from you. A healthy relationship is built over deeper trust.

4. Make Room


Respecting each other’s personal space is as important as spending time together. There is nothing wrong with your partner taking up some alone time or do something with others, which does not involve you. This will even give you something to talk about and amuse each other when you spend time together.

5.Don’t Take Him/Her For Granted


Treat your partner with respect and give them the same attention you feel you deserve. Remind them how much they mean to you on a regular basis, not always with words but with gestures. Even when you say “I love you,” say it in a way your partner feels that you really mean it rather than for the sake of saying it. Never feel shy or afraid to express the feelings you have towards your partner.

6.You Can’t Fix Everything


Just because you are in a relationship, it does not mean you have to agree upon everything. Rather than spending your time fighting about this, just move on and agree to disagree. Find a workaround in such situations and learn to compromise. There is no possibility of two people spending years together without any disagreements. Learning to deal with disagreements is where the strength of your relationship is seen, not during your happy times.


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